The English Manner

The English Manner is a unique British-based company providing international training and consultancy in contemporary etiquette, protocol, the arts and social skills, household and event planning.

Founded by Alexandra Messervy, formerly of the Royal Household of Her Majesty The Queen, in 2001, The English Manner gives worldwide personal development, cultural, hospitality and social skills training to an international clientele of all ages.

The English Manner has four main areas of expertise: etiquette & protocol tuition, household management, cultural learning tours & programmes, and event management.

We have worked with private individuals who wish to enhance their social skills, to large multi-nationals who require their staff to learn about international business protocol. Seminars are tailored to the client’s specific needs and wants, which means we rarely give the same presentation twice. To find out more, click here.

Now recognised as a leading authority on international private household & estate management, The English Manner has implemented state of the art paper and computerised household management systems throughout the world in some of the largest private houses, yachts and luxury hotels. Whether a Principal requires a complete review of their estate staffing requirements, refresher training, or to implement a system for staff, The English Manner will advise, procure, and assist in staffing, training and management solutions. We offer a unique assessment service, with detailed written reports and recommendations, and working with individuals as well as some of the top domestic staff recruitment agencies across the world, find and train some of the most sought after individuals in the industry. To find out more, click here.

As part of our social skills expertise, we create unique travel experiences with a focus on artistic and cultural skills development for a discerning clientele. Working with a wide-range of luxury brands and service-providers, our programmes prove to be a winning combination for our guests, many of whom return year after year. To find out more, click here.

The founder of The English Manner, Alexandra Messervy, has many years of experience organising events having worked in Royal household and for many VIP clients. We focus our event management on exclusive private occasions such as weddings, gala dinners and receptions, but also offer a consultancy service on event etiquette for any occasion. To find out more, click here.